Plan ahead.

-Remove known triggers from the area.

-Teach the differences between tantrums and meltdowns and how to react to each. 

-Train how to get out of holds and grabs. 

-Assign volunteers to guard exits.

-Create and practice a plan to find a lost child.

-Have children who like to undress wear items difficult to remove like one-piece garments.

-Separate the aggressive student from others.
-Place distance between you and the student.
-Stand near an exit or just outside the room where you can still observe.  
-Tie back your hair, remove accessories that can be grabbed, cover exposed arms, or use Kevlar sleeves.
-Remove items that may be thrown or used to poke; remove shoes from kickers.
-Don't hold the student, unless it's necessary for their safety.

-Have someone give you a break or try something different. Students may respond well to different people or ideas.

-Continue to let the student know you care and want to help. 

-Ask the student for their advice and help to resolve the situation. 

-Let them hear you pray.

-Be calm and compassionate; try silence, especially when talking seems to make things worse. 

-Whether you call in the parents for help or give them an update at pick-up time, make sure they know their child is still loved and welcome to return.

-Review the situation with the volunteers involved to calm concerns and offer ways to support them as they continue serving.  

-Report the incident in accordance with your church's policies, recap the situation with your team, and plan to prevent recurrence.