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Interacting with those with disabilities can be intimidating and confusing. What should we say, not say, do, and not do? Don't let fears keep you from serving and building friendships with a person with a disability. Increase confidence by exploring and experiencing the challenges faced daily by those with special needs. Learn and use common etiquette principles that build mutual respect. Make real connections by adapting communication styles. Spend some time in their shoes (or on their wheels) to better equip yourself so everyone feels like they belong in your church.
Explore and experience.
Explore and experience.
Explore and experience.
-Imagine yourself going to church with a child who has autism.
-Maneuver through your church in a wheelchair.
-Sit in service while wearing a blindfold.
-Ask those with disabilities to help you understand their feelings.
-Hold workshops that help others become more empathetic (see ideas below.)
Build respect.
Explore and experience.
Explore and experience.
-Speak to the person directly and age-appropriately, in a normal tone and pace.
-Treat wheelchairs, walkers, canes, service animals, devices, and canes as an extension of one's body. Don't touch or move without asking.
-If guiding someone, let them grab your arm and follow you; don't pull.
-Ask a person how they'd like to be treated.
Make Connections.
Explore and experience.
Make Connections.
-Discreetly announce arrival or attract attention before starting a conversation.
-Position yourself so the person can easily see and/or hear you.
-Describe what you see, hear, smell, and feel to those who cannot use those senses.
-Be patient while waiting for answers and let the person finish their thoughts.
-Assume intelligence; hold a conversation similar to chatting with a friend.